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Love Language Quiz 2.0

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3. Age

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25-34

35-44

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55 and above

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4. Sex

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5. Relationship Status

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6. Ethnicity

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Attachment-Based Relationship Language Quiz using emotionally focused approach (30 Questions)

Instructions: For each question, choose the statement (A or B) that resonates more with you.

1. Choose the statement (A or B) that resonates more with you

A) (AR) I feel valued when my partner recognizes my contributions to the relationship.

B) (CF) I cherish having shared interests and activities with my partner.

2. Choose the statement (A or B) that resonates more with you

A) (EA) I feel most understood when my partner can articulate my feelings accurately.

B) (AR) I value when my partner shows respect for my background and experiences

3. Choose the statement (A or B) that resonates more with you

A) (RR) I appreciate when my partner consistently prioritizes our romantic connection.

B) (SA) I value when my partner respects my autonomy while providing a sense of security.

4. Choose the statement (A or B) that resonates more with you

A) (AR) I feel valued when my partner expresses appreciation for my role in their life.

B) (CF) I cherish having a partner who I can be completely myself around.

5. Choose the statement (A or B) that resonates more with you

A) (SA) It's important that we support each other's individual growth and change.

B) (EA) I feel closest to my partner when they offer attention that matches my needs.

6. Choose the statement (A or B) that resonates more with you

A) (CF) I value having shared experiences and creating memories together as friends.

B) (RR) I feel loved when my partner makes romantic gestures, big or small.

7. Choose the statement (A or B) that resonates more with you

A) (EA) I feel most understood when my partner intuitively grasps the root of my feelings.

B) (AR) I appreciate when my partner acknowledges the effort I put into our relationship.

8. Choose the statement (A or B) that resonates more with you

A) (RR) I feel secure knowing I can count on my partner's consistency and reliability.

B) (SA) It's crucial that we maintain a balance between togetherness and independence.

9. Choose the statement (A or B) that resonates more with you

A) (AR) I value when my partner expresses respect for my decisions and choices.

B) (CF) I enjoy having a partner who I can laugh and have fun with as a friend.

10. Choose the statement (A or B) that resonates more with you

A) (SA) I feel supported when my partner encourages me to pursue my own passions.

B) (EA) I appreciate when my partner offers the right kind of affection based on my mood.

11. Choose the statement (A or B) that resonates more with you

A) (CF) I cherish building a deep friendship within our romantic relationship.

B) (RR) It's important to me that my partner keeps the spark alive in our relationship.

12. Choose the statement (A or B) that resonates more with you

A) (EA) I feel most connected when my partner and I can communicate without words.

B) (AR) I appreciate when my partner recognizes and values my unique perspective.

13. Choose the statement (A or B) that resonates more with you

A) (RR) I feel loved when my partner consistently shows up for me, emotionally and physically.

B) (SA) I value when my partner respects my need for personal space and independence.

14. Choose the statement (A or B) that resonates more with you

A) (AR) I feel valued when my partner expresses admiration for my qualities.

B) (CF) I appreciate having a strong sense of companionship in our relationship.

15. Choose the statement (A or B) that resonates more with you

A) (SA) It's important that we encourage each other's personal interests.

B) (EA) I feel closest to my partner when they anticipate my emotional needs.

16. Choose the statement (A or B) that resonates more with you

A) (CF) I enjoy engaging in meaningful conversations with my partner as friends.

B) (RR) I appreciate when my partner puts effort into creating romantic moments.

17. Choose the statement (A or B) that resonates more with you

A) (EA) I feel loved when my partner pays close attention to my emotional state.

B) (AR) I value when my partner expresses genuine appreciation for who I am.

18. Choose the statement (A or B) that resonates more with you

A) (RR) I feel secure when I can rely on my partner's word without question.

B) (SA) It's crucial that we support each other's individual goals and dreams.

19. Choose the statement (A or B) that resonates more with you

A) (AR) I appreciate when my partner acknowledges my strengths and capabilities

B) (CF) I value having a partner who is also my best friend.

20. Choose the statement (A or B) that resonates more with you

A) (SA) I feel respected when my partner trusts me to make my own choices.

B) (EA) I feel loved when my partner offers physical affection that matches my mood.

21. Choose the statement (A or B) that resonates more with you

A) (CF) I appreciate when we can just relax and be ourselves together.

B) (RR) It's important to me that my partner keeps the romance alive in our relationship.

22. Choose the statement (A or B) that resonates more with you

A) (EA) I feel connected when my partner can sense my mood without me saying anything.

B) (AR) I value when my partner expresses gratitude for the little things I do.

23. Choose the statement (A or B) that resonates more with you

A) (RR) I feel loved when my partner makes consistent efforts to maintain our romance.

B) (SA) I appreciate when my partner encourages my personal growth and aspirations.

24. Choose the statement (A or B) that resonates more with you

A) (SA) It's important that we maintain our individual identities in the relationship.

B) (EA) I feel closest to my partner when they offer comfort without me asking.

25. Choose the statement (A or B) that resonates more with you

A) (CF) I enjoy spending quality time with my partner as friends.

B) (RR) I appreciate when my partner plans romantic surprises for me.

26. Choose the statement (A or B) that resonates more with you

A) (EA) I feel most loved when my partner is fully present and attentive to me.

B) (AR) I value when my partner expresses respect for my opinions and beliefs.

27. Choose the statement (A or B) that resonates more with you

A) (RR) I feel secure when my partner consistently follows through on promises.

B) (SA) I appreciate when my partner respects my personal boundaries.

28. Choose the statement (A or B) that resonates more with you

A) (AR) It means a lot when my partner acknowledges my efforts and achievements.

B) (CF) I value having a strong friendship as the foundation of our relationship.

29. Choose the statement (A or B) that resonates more with you

A) (SA) I feel respected when my partner supports my independence.

B) (EA) I feel connected when my partner shows physical affection intuitively.

30. Choose the statement (A or B) that resonates more with you

A) (CF) I cherish moments of casual companionship and friendship with my partner.

B) (RR) I appreciate romantic gestures and reliability in my relationship.

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